I'm with Moon on this one. There are definitely two sides to it. I'm struggling with being able to depend. My T encourages me to contact him whenever I need to, but I rarely do, and only if I have a scheduling problem. I would like to, but I'd have no idea what to say and I'd feel silly. I mentioned something about being upset last time I messaged over a scheduling thing and felt like a right n00b for it. Yeah, I haz a long way to go.
I'm afraid though, if I let myself depend on him, email him when I'm upset etc., that he'll pull something like this...