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Originally Posted by BDPpartner
I have never worn the rose coloured spec's that friends have with regards to the sacrifice that is required and have always considered myself to selfish for motherhood. ( getting up and down in the night, putting their needs and well being first even if you feel like death warmed up)
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This is me, perfectly. I really am too selfish, & I don't kid myself about it. A child shouldn't have to suffer because I did what I thought society wanted me to do, even if I knew I shouldn't be doing it. So no, I don't have kids, & I don't plan on having any. I'm only 34. Will my opinion change in the future? Perhaps. I can always adopt. But for now, no, not a chance. I don't really like children.