It is impossible to stay away because they live next door! And our lives r so intertwined. From what I remember which is not much...I don't believe he ever physically touched me but words can be just as bad...like the concept of phone sex...neither of u r touching but you're being extremely intimate. I feel like I am stuck in a hopeless situation and I really really don't even want to be put in the position of my brother in law trying to seduce me. I am aware my sister is delusional..she became like that due to living with her husband.