It's not about being fixed. It's about having a good life.

Don't blow off self help. DBT and CBT skills, mindfulness, yoga, good diet, chingong, vitamins, self care, gratitude journals, all that hokey stuff works. We can change ourselves with small daily practices. Even of you could collapse into a luxury treatment facility, you would still have to change yourself b6 changing your habits.

Eventually we get from kill me or cure me to will this act make my life better or worse?