He is a manipulative conman. Anything you say can and will be used against you when you deal with him. I did tell him in the past and then he told his wife that I tried to sduce him and in turn she texted all of my friends what a disgusting person I am and they shouldnt be friends with me anymore. I was friendless for weeks because my friends were terrified that my sister would spread rumors about them if they stayed my friends.

And its not limited to me just going over to their house- he texts me and calls me and talks about me to other people all the time. He followed me when I went out with my friends and when I went out of town he texted me pictures of ME AND MY FRIENDS that one of his associates took for him and told me hes always watching me and I can never get away. My shrink at the time told me to report him as a stalker and i could have a restraining order against him but i wasnt ready to take such a drastic step. Not only would it have destroyed my sisters family but it would have destroyed my family too.