I'm rather shocked, because my friend and his entire family are extremely close with my family, my Aunt is basically sisters with his mom.

So we've known each other for a pretty long time, and I thought we were getting real close. Today, i find out that my good friend's mom has talked about me behind my back. Comes at no surprise because she is a huge gossiper, but comes at a surprise because I've been so completely respectful of their family. Like when i found out my friend smoked an ecig at the age of 14 and smoked cigs at 12, I kept it just between us. I didn't let my parents know. And when I found out rather quickly how much of a foul mouth he has i kept that a secret too. And how he bad mouths the cops saying they are useless while i defended them. So today, I found out that his mom talked about me, last night she got mad cause we were being loud while she slept, and as she went up to bed she said "you guys are like a bunch of babies". so i thought she said that out of anger. but this morning she had a talk with my friend aka her son and she said "you both need to grow up, he's almost 20 acting 14 and you're like a child". That hurt. ill be honest. Ill also be honest and add that i am immature for my age. I'm 19 yrs old (just turned) and i act like I'm 15-16 yrs old. but none the less it hurt. I later found out that as we were all shopping, she talked about how it annoys her how I'm always on my phone. I really am not always on it, her son and me are on it equally.

my day has been ruined. I'm very hurt by this whole thing. i don't know whether or not I'm being overly sensitive about this or what. I've spent a full week with this family, so my patience is probably at its limit. as he has "poked fun" (a little bit) about my cutting and he has be antagonizing me about me cutting myself saying its the "p*ssy" way to deal with things, he's also invaded my privacy several times (all in fun, but still annoying) by coming in on me while I'm using the bathroom and staying in there as well as while i was taking a bath. a few times i have wanted to cut myself. I finally leave tomorrow, and one thing is for sure, i will not be seeing him, nor missing him for quite a while.

Im sorta venting, but i also want opinions.