I want to quit, again!! "This time I really mean it!!" I feel like there is nothing left he can help me with; nothing. He is telling me it's resistance; great! If resistance is unconsious, how am I to know what "it" is that I am resisting? This stuff makes me crazy! He actually can read me more that I would like to admit. We've been together for a few years. But, I went the other day and felt it's over. I don't want the connection or attachment any longer. It hurts. I'm not where I want to be but there is only so much he can do. He can't change certain things. I don't want to show up and small talk and look out the window. What do I do? Ride this out? I want to get away from him and don't know why. Yet, when he leaves for vacation, I go completely nuts. I am too attached and hate it. Excuse me while I go bang my head against the wall...