Hello Restin,

Remember you did this thread here http://forums.psychcentral.com/gener...sing-here.html which was the end of May. Let me assure you that the therapy will not end until you feel that you are ready.

The transference work will work through, believe me but it also takes time. The point of the work is for you eventually to have your own internal 'T' , not a parent to your inner child but a T. (The child is attached to T.) So, with the transference at the moment you are still at the stage where the T is external. With good therapy that 'T' will become part of your own system. Please believe me, it happens! Let your therapist know that you know there will come a time to terminate the therapy but you are not ready yet. You will know when that is!