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Well, the truth finally came out. The whole truth. He slept with this woman twice. It turned out to be more than I ever thought was possible. But it happened. Now here I am , stuck with this heartache. Why do people have to be so cruel? Now I'm wondering what's wrong with me that he had to cheat.

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<font color="purple"> ((((((((((((jenn)))))))))))))))))
First of all YOU are NOT at fault and there is NOTHING wrong with you!! It is HIS own doing! I would suggest a messgae board that I use to particpate in a few yrs ago but the board now has many not so good pple posting now which is why I no longer post their but there are still many many good boarders that would be very supportive and helpful... Its AOL, Women's , Marriage, Surviving The Affair..

Now again, I am on the oppsoite end, I was the cheater... It is NOT your fault Jenn.... Your husband is lost in himself and his own selfishness... I am so sorry that he has done this to you and your marriage and your family.... You will experience so many different feelings , much like grieving, in essence it is a greiving process.... Even though you can work thru this and the marraige and family unit can be saved and eventuallly trust and love can be rebuilt, it wont be the same.... It can be better...... It is a long difficult journey for sure....

I dont want to overwhelm you with too much info right now .......PM anytime Jenn, vent, scream, ask questions, pry, I am here and might be able to offer some insight, not excuse, but insight .......

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