Sunrise... sorrry I called you Sunshine. I knew better. I have a kitty named Sunshine and I know I was used to just saying Sunshine.

Becca... I too think that perhaps there is a middle ground and that Perna's post might be helpful to both of us.

Perna's post resonated with me. I hope you do not mind my answering so here. Thank you.

Something has inspired you to post about anger and how it has affected you in your youth and how you experience it now. It may feel safer to experience it at yourself rather than at others. Perhaps both you and I need to work a negotiation with this anger so that it is better for each of us.