My T said she wants to talk to my fiance so we can come up with a plan for both my fiance and I to work as a team to help me while he also benefits. She's also mad at my fiance because he's actually supportive of my SI. How deep I went this time upset him, but he actually gave me permission to continue so long as it's never deep...

And yes, I'm looking into DBT. I have found a group, but there's not enough people yet because everyone's on vacation. My T is trying to talk to the DBT person to see if he can help me some while we're waiting for the group to form up. My T told me I HAVE to go to DBT now. She doesn't care if I go "kicking and screaming; I'm going...