Your feelings about being frustrated because you have to constantly be dealing with food and making meals is understandable. That has been the main drive to the success of TV/Frozen dinners and fast food restaurants. Some people really "love" to cook and consider it an art, yet some people just don't want to be bothered and have to spend so much of their time in the kitchen cooking and cleaning.

If or when your children are old enough have them learn to make some of the meals and have them take turns, you can get dad involved with that too if you are married.

My mother always hated cooking too, I don't care for it all that much myself after having to constantly worry about it for so many years.