Hi, I want to say Welcome to the Forums,
However I really do not have an answer for your question, that I can think of other that you said you and your husband are both compatible, in many areas. The key word that I did not see was LOVE, as you are married, I would say that you love one another. I can't see if you love him and he loves you that the fact of being attracted to or unattracted to would even be an issue. In every person I have loved, the physical attractivness had no play on how I felt for that person. As I was able to look past all that and see "the person" for who they truely were.

I am sure someone else will have some better advise. However in my opinion, love is the key issue in a relationship.

Take care, and once again welcome- Chris

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