You dont think that I did evrything possible already EXCEPT for go to the police? cause I did. Of course I told my parents all through high school but my brother in law had already twisted their minds so much- they said I must be the one seducing him and its my fault because of the way I dress and i bring it on myself. I dress extremely conservatively- ive never work a tank top, vneck, mini skirt, or shorts before... and for that matter i stopped dressing attractively because i couldnt stand my brother in laws comments anymore and they were making me feel violated, it just wasnt worth it. I approached my guidance counselor in high school and even went to the principal but it was no use. No one is able to do anything. I'm to be married soon- I moved away from home for awhile and met a guy..my family knows nothing about him because i am too scared my brother in law will react in a violent manner if he finds out AND I'm very worried that my brother in law will destroy my marriage if we get to the wedding vows in one piece that is... I know I have no reason to fear him but ever since i was little I have- Im working on removing the fear from my system but Im afraid I will always be somewhat afraid of him.