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Old Jul 23, 2014, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted by regretful View Post
Thanks...I understand the idea behind mindfulness very well...I'm just not too good at it. Strangely, I did practice prayerful mindful meditation when I was not depressed. What threw me into a loop was leaving a job. Now I have nothing to do other than think and it is, I fear, driving me nuts. I can't laugh, I don't enjoy life, and I'm just numb...
Wow ok. Well another technique is distraction. I used to wake with obsessive thoughts and just negative everything so I just got out of bed, made hot chocolate and did something. I could return to bed, sometimes within an hour. Interrupt the mind when bad thoughts come up. Just like mindfulness, takes practice. I had to get in a bad enough place that I got desperate, and worked at this as my main goal for the day.

Unemployment is tough. I got laid off several years ago, and with a wife, two kids and a mortgage it was scary. I just got up everyday and got dressed as if I was going to work, and made my workday finding a new job. I had too. Positive benefits of this were it kept my mind distracted, and eventually I did find a new job. A better one.
Thanks for this!
regretful