What is there to argue about? Of course you cannot get this traumatic injury out of your mind. What is there, really to talk with him about? If he believes you are a baby maker, and your culture doesn't allow divorce. He needs to run the gamut of tests before harming whatever children he plans with you. Let him explain why, or would that be your fault? Serious there. Perhaps in vitro, will be the only solution and pretend he doesn't exist.