Sunrise, if you're stupid for posting it, then so am I, because I have no idea how anger is supposed to work and I certainly have no examples from family members I think I should be working from.

I just don't feel angry. I kind of figured out I was angry with my mother through deductive reasoning, as stupid as that sounds. I still don't really feel angry. I suppose that I am angry. I guess I'm associating anger with a desire to hurt someone else? I really just want my mother to understand that some things that she did hurt me. I don't feel a great need for revenge.