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Originally Posted by Beckster2014
But then, I do believe she will not remember what she has said either, as she forgets alot. Her uncle had dementia and I wonder sometimes if she is showing signs of it too.
I will read and retain what everyone has typed back to me and take it in. Thanks again.
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That's a very good point Becky. It should be something you might want to talk to your bf about, but in a sympathetic way (of course). Dementia has a tremendous affect on personality, as well as memory. I would definitely try the 'understanding' bit....certainly couldn't hurt. Meantime, pay attention to her moods, thought processes (as much as you can) to get a better idea of what her motivations are.
You CAN ask her about some of the things she says, but it would probably be more helpful to question (gently) those things just as she's said them, thereby limiting her lack of recall.
I know you're upset, and frustrated (I know exactly how you feel, truly) but I would have you make it easier on yourself and your bf, and leading with a snarky reply to her incomprehensible comment, won't do that. Vent here....call it a vent....then take a deep breath and carry on.
You seem empathetic...I wish you luck.