Hi Fawnrose. You say when you press him he gets angry. Does that mean you are asking him what is wrong. I have heard from several men that men in general Hate that question? Can not explain why but then again they are men and difficult to figure sometimes.
I see the last post suggested marriage counseling. Well that would be my first thought too. A very smart choice. Your post does not say that you have told him exactly how you feel. I mean a conversation where you do not say YOU make me feel this way or that. A talk where you say. I am really hurt that we do not spend any family time. I would really like to know what I can do to make that happen. Or I would really like to spend time with you, have some fun, see a movie, etc. A conversation without blame, just feelings.
So many people have a difficult time opening up and discussing their feelings.
I wish I had more. Good Luck to you