Hi,

I've made the experience a lot that people don't even notice sometimes when I'm speaking. even if I'm standing right in front of them. they just suddenly start talking about something completely different while I'm in the middle of a sentence. or just turn around and walk away.

I don't know why that is.

but I've noticed that it happens less when I'm doing fine. I've been trying to figure out how it works for a long time. there must be something about the body language or the voice or something that tells them we don' t need to be heard. and that is less when doing well. it probably has a lot to do with self-confidence.

but it's not that simple to say "just be more confident!"
it doesn't work like that. but if any of you have come across how it works I'd be very interested!