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Originally Posted by ~rider
Wow ok. Well another technique is distraction. I used to wake with obsessive thoughts and just negative everything so I just got out of bed, made hot chocolate and did something. I could return to bed, sometimes within an hour. Interrupt the mind when bad thoughts come up. Just like mindfulness, takes practice. I had to get in a bad enough place that I got desperate, and worked at this as my main goal for the day.
Unemployment is tough. I got laid off several years ago, and with a wife, two kids and a mortgage it was scary. I just got up everyday and got dressed as if I was going to work, and made my workday finding a new job. I had too. Positive benefits of this were it kept my mind distracted, and eventually I did find a new job. A better one.
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Thank you ~rider...I awoke today thinking that I would work on a day without complaining. So far, I'm four hours into it, and the complaints have been over-ridden by thoughts of gratitude. It has reduced my anxiety. I'm thankful that you took the time to help me recall the benefits of mindfulness. I appreciate your thoughtfulness.