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Old Jul 24, 2014, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by woundedsoul View Post
I'm not sure that it actually happens less when you're fine, or it's that you just notice it less.
I actually think so.

however the other thing you're talking about is just as true! so it's even worse if people keep doing that when someone is already hyper critical.

I've always been sensitive about getting interrupted and this is an issue I've been watching for a long time. people do actually interrupt or ignore me more when I am not self-confident. (been counting) also I don't really find that so surprising. because self-confident people show you that their trustworthy because they trust themselves. so it's more likely other people want to listen. and people like listening more to positive ideas than to sad stories because they want to be happy themselves.

Last edited by flours; Jul 24, 2014 at 02:20 PM. Reason: wrong quotation, wrong words