I don't want or expect a celebration. I was just hoping to have dinner with everyone at a restaurant

My fiance's family doesn't want to have dinner with my family. So we changed up the dinner plans for my family on my b-day and my fiance's family the day after. And last night my mom called and said dinner on my b-day night won't work!?!?

I told my fiance that he has to figure it all out; I can't deal with it. I also told him for now on, he schedules my b-day. But I also made it clear: by the time we have a child, our families better get used to being together because I'm not going to stand for this s***.

So I guess my fiance and I will be having a dinner by ourselves. That's okay. Like some of you suggested, it's probably for the best. Least he won't stress me out.