Hi Ishiru: Yes. I knew the answer to the question. Of course, the therapist can't make you a girl ( wouldn't that be nice?) So what is it specifically that you want the therapist to do in order to help you begin to move in that direction? You see, my experience tells me that you need to tell the therapist what you want her or him to do for you. Otherwise, you may walk out of the appointment with less than you had hoped. Does that make sense?