Hi Sacrad Path, if you think people avoid you because you're boring, is this because you aren't talking about yourself much? Because that can be caused by nervousness or just by being a quiet person, not being boring. I'm starting to realize I'm not such a boring person myself, although I was afraid I was at first. There is always a ton of reasons why people may not want to be around others, but I don't think someone being boring is one of them.

I'm sorry you don't have a job. You might want to talk about it on the work and careers forum to ask advice. Honestly, I don't think working actually makes a person less boring . If anything, it makes you more boring. I barely ever talk about my day-to-day activities at work with people, because it's a really boring subject, lol. Of course, unless you had a really exciting job.

About not having friends, that doesn't stop you from making any. If you feel you don't have much to talk about, it may mean because you're just not talking to the "right" people and maybe you might want to gain some more interests. I'm sure you already have some interests that you may have put in the back of your mind. I think posting here on PC is one. I truly believe interests are things that are built over time. Plus, if you get involved in things like projects or hobbies, you have the chance to meet people who enjoy the same things you do.

About not having a girlfriend, I wouldn't even worry about that. I believe that girlfriends and boyfriends aren't commodities, but life choices. Plus, there are a lot of negatives that come with dating, so it's not all flowers and daisies. For one, I believe that you do lose at least some of your freedom. Second, there's supporting the relationship and making time for it. Third, there's the fact that you may at one point find that's it's not working out. Fourth... Well, I think it takes a lot of work. Also, you could use this time without a girlfriend to build your own interests and self-esteem.

About not driving, it means people can't use you for rides . However, it also might mean you can't take yourself out to places you want to go. It always depends on circumstances. If you get around fine anyways, I don't see this as a problem. For example, it can be very healthy not to have a car if it means you walk more.

About not having money, there are a lot of things can do be done very cheaply or for free. Money's good to help you get out more, however. Writing can be done for free, and so can visiting a library and checking out books. Do you have any local clubs you can join? There can be a lot of things that can be done online, as well. For example, I'm sure there are lessons online for dancing and how to program. Have you heard of Coursera? It's a site that provides free online courses from universities, colleges, etc. Here's the link: https://www.coursera.org/course/datascitoolbox.

I wouldn't be so hard on yourself.