Hi ladies. I came across this group tonight, actually surprised it took me this long. But hi! I'm Denise.

My issue: before and without psych meds (specifically anti-depressants) my sex drive is very high. As time goes on, meds changed & adjusted, my sex drive has plummeted. So much so that I not only am never in the mood, I really do not want sex. Of any kind.

I feel just awful for it. I know my husband is somewhat frustrated; he actually used to be unable to keep up with me. And now? I don't want it. I'm completely turned off. It's not because of him. We've always been faithful (as has he, I trust him) & the sex we do have is always awesome. I still like being intimate with him by cuddling and kissing, just not sex.

I find myself showering less to avoid it. :/ I think maybe something else may be going on? I'm not sure what but I know the meds must play a big role. But I need my meds to function; I've found the right combo and it's been 8 years of searching. I miss wanting to be touched. I miss wanting to touch him. It's a dreadful feeling.

What do I do? Thanks