Those are 4 words I absolutely hate! Am I the only one that feels like that is one of the most hurtful things someone can say. I feel like it's someone's way of saying that they don't really care. I'm not stupid I know it could be worse, but what's going on with me is real and it hurts, and to be honest there have been times in my past that I didn't feel like it could be worse. I would get so low that I would wish for release from everything. I think wishing for that is about as bad as it can get. Yes I have a job and a home and a family that really does care(even though they don't understand) but when you struggle with depression you sometimes don't think that way. I do care for those that do have it bad I care very deeply, but sometimes the hurt in my soul takes over and nothing is worse. Does that make me selfish? Just wondering if anyone else feels this way from time to time?