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Originally Posted by floating.feather
I'll add that the person I was friends with isn't even someone who doesn't expose herself to new things and this made her an interesting person. She is schizophrenic and I didn't mind being friends with her. I'm completely fine with supporting a friend yet there still has to be reciprocity for it to be called a friendship. That's where the major problem was. I was just a free counselor to her, she would constantly dump her issues on me while having no interest in mine; there were a lot of reasons for this and she did this to all of her friends. I was friends with her for quite a while so naturally the friendship became more exhausting than enjoyable. That's when I knew what was going on wasn't good for me. She, too, would turn everything into a sex joke or to her sex life...to the point where it was tmi, even when discomfort was made obvious each time she still continued...
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Yep that is exactly the person I am dealing with. If I try to talk to her, she doesn't seem to care as much but when she is upset, she keeps on going on and on and on and on and won't stop, and I feel like a free counselor. And even when she is not upset, she still tends to not listen to me as much and she does this to basically everyone. The more I think about it, the more I realize that I should take a break and only associate with her in small doses.