Oh lavaja, I am so sorry this is what you are having to go through. Daughter's can be so mean to their mothers. Sounds like she is trying to get back at you for taking the phone away so she is keeping your grand daughter away from you. What a B! Have you tried reaching out to her? I had to do the same thing with my son luckily no grand kids involved, I haven't talked to him hardly in over a year. Boys are different though. I really don't have any advice, just know that I am here to listen. PM me anytime if you want to talk!