Thanks for the replies.
I am almost to the point now where I am wanting to leave this boyfriend for good. I love him very much but there has to be a time where he needs to try to be more healthy in some way for himself. I am tired of trying to help him quit cigarettes, drinking whiskey, walking even a short distance for exercise, going to the heart doctor when he refuses to do so.
Just please keep me in your thoughts and prayers that I will make the right decisions in finding the right car, going to the right place to live, to keep being sober & being healthy emotionally and physically.