Hi everyone, I really need your opinion, as it relates to what you guys have posted here. I've been diagnosed with Asperger's too (25 year old guy) and for the last few months I've been reading about relationships with people having Asperger's. I'm so stuck. I want to know whether I should pursue ever having a girlfriend in my life. I've never had one before. It sounds like it's very difficult for a girl to live with an Asperger's guy. Why I ask is because, I have felt love in my life before for someone, but, OK, it never went anywhere, she never found out (until later when I told her, huge mess...). But, I want to know if I should have a girlfriend/wife ever in my life. I know I can be a very loving guy if given the chance, but, considering all these communication barriers, I know that on my best day, I won't even hold a candle to a normal guy on his worst day. I know the girl will never get the emotional fulfilment out of the relationship she wants. How long could she take it before she seeks another guy, just for some normality? If I seek a relationship, aren't I being really selfish, since I know I can't fulfil her needs? It sucks being alone, but if it's the right thing to do, then I guess alone forever I shall have to be then .