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My current doc delayed me to go less often...every two weeks... as I think he thought I was getting too close perhaps. Wanted me to be more independent. Go figure .... I now wish to move forward and go weekly to a scarey part of myself I wish to deal with.

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This is what I feel my therapist is trying to do. I have a lot I want to discuss on Tuesday. But, I just feel that by continuing to show up weekly after he has said he thinks it is appropriate to reduce sessions, is making me feel kind of weird now.

Anyway, yes a connection is so important. He did say one session that he thought my husband might be jealous of our relationship because he and I connect emotionally and my husband doesn't with me. It felt really good to hear him say this and it is not entirely untrue. My husband does not know how to connect emotionally with anyone but maybe our son...