Thank you so much for that post Almeda. I needed it today. I actually found him in a nursing home before he died and told him I wanted to visit. He seemed pleased to hear from me and I was to see him when he was a bit stronger.

Anyhow... that alone makes me feel better..that I found him before the end.

I did not see him til after our therapy time ended but he knew that by his actions... there was a huge amount of healing to my life. It was symbolic..of many things I lacked. I will leave it at that. Thanks.