You and your daughter really need to figure this out. A serious discussion is in order, email her or contact her in some way to set a date she can come over your house or you can go over to hers. If she doesn't contact you, go to her house leave a note on the door explaining why you need to get in touch with her or if she's there knock and ask if you can come in. Bring some small snacks maybe soda, tea, juice, etc and talk. Offer to let her talk first and listen to her without interrupting. I mean really listen and try to understand where she's coming from. When she's done give your point of view and be truthful. Don't let your volume raise to high we don't want slamming doors and yelling at the top of your lungs no matter how angry she gets it's important that you stay calm. At the end of your conversation make sure you tell her that you will always love her no matter what (if you really do, if not compliment her on her shoes or something). Let her know that you care about her and that you would like to have a good relationship
Hope this helped and good luck