How about a continuing dialogue about frequency of visits. Do you know why he wanted to decrease visits? Sometimes I am inspired to bring up new topics or keep things rolling and sometimes I ask him if he has a direction for things or anything he thinks we should discuss. Does that come in to play with your visits or might that have anything to do with the frequency of visits.

I think that sometimes when I feel slower I might feel the need to jump in to things that I might have been avoiding. LOL... gee that can be scarey ...for me.