this is why i can't have a female t. i have issues with my mother and i would absolutely shut down with a female t. i had a female t briefly and that was disastrous. i have a male t now that i've seen long term and it's been so much easier for me to work with him.
it sounds like a struggle for you, but one that might be worth it? it sounds like you talked about it some, maybe print out the list and take it with you?
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