LOL. You're like me. I thought I was the only one who worried about scent notes clashing. LOL. I always make sure that my soap, shampoo, lotion and perfume won't clash with one another.
Lately, I've been wearing a perfume called Solstis and it matches perfectly with my pear linden lotion. So, I use an unscented shampoo, conditioner, Ivory soap, and unscented anti-perspirant, so there's nothing to interfere with the lovely scent of my perfume and lotion. They just blend so beautifully!