I understand how you feel birdpumpkin. I'm not yet diagnosed but I'm sure I have complex ptsd. Your ptsd seems like it's from the recent trauma but the symptoms for both types can overlap, one of them being sep anxiety. I had that with my T. If I couldn't see him for a few weeks I'd almost snap with grief. I'd also think my husband was in an accident if he came home later than planned.

I good trauma therapist could do wonders for you and you could try to get meds that can calm you down.