Thanks everyone. I just began therapy - I don't think she's a trauma therapist. Just a counselor I think. I've only had one session so far, but she was stumped by my being so anxious whenever my husband had to leave. I was, too, but the longer I thought on it, this is what I came up with and looked it up, and what I read definitely seemed like me. A trauma can bring it about, so I'm sure that's what is happening. It has definitely made me realize how important my family is to me, that's for sure. Not something I'd considered much before, but now just want to keep them close by where I know what is going on with them.