I know you meant well. And I meant no disrespect. But, my point is that some of us have seen crimes.. some of us have had crimes committed against us.

For some of us, it's a little more complicated than just forgiving people because "they did the best they could".

I'm all for forgiving some people, because they truly did the best they could... but, I also still think that when someone is diagnosed as NPD, that their childhood should be examined, and those who committed crimes against them should be brought to justice.

Perhaps you're an exception if you know that no crimes were committed against you.