Thanks to each one of you

I am incredibly appreciate of your comments. Personally, I would not ask someone to remove something from her fb wall. If I was really uncomfortable with something a friend posted I would tell the person and try my best to explain why I was offended by the post. More than anything I would look at myself for an answer of why I had such a strong reaction to a Fb post.
Fortunately, by really rising to the occasion I initiated a thoughtful conversation with my friend and it turned into a win-win situation. She recognized that her own issues prompted her extreme reaction to the meme I posted and I recognized that I post stuff like that meme because it helps diffuse my internal rage. It's takes constant vigilance for me to learn how to be assertive with out being passive (resentful) or aggressive (destructive).
Every one of you has been so helpful.
bronzeowl..."The Man Who Sold the World"...yes...