Hello Flowerpetal,
I get this kind of treatment from my parents, brother and some relatives. I have chosen to stay away from them because of being tired of ill treatment and verbal emotional abuse. If they can't give me respect, acknowledgement, understanding, support, and love... then they can stay away from me for good.
I'm sorry you are going through stressful things with your family. I hope everything works out for the better. There are a lot of good books out there that helped me make my decision on what to do.

~Soulflower~