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Old Jul 28, 2014, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Leah123 View Post
Please don't abandon a moral compass because you're blinded by your fear of loneliness.

If you're willing to have a child to serve your needs, I hope you will invest in the marriage counseling and other work planning how you'll manage the labor-intensive care (physically intensive, emotionally intensive, financially intensive)
True I have said that I don't want to be alone without family when I am in my twilight yrs, but that doesn't mean that if I do decide to have a child it is something sinister and immoral !!!

Things are not black and white !

There is no possible way I could write down every feeling, fear and reason for and against having a baby, but I thought I had chosen a place that is non judgemental to explore the question; and for those of you who have respected that thank you
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