((((( selfharmer )))))

I'm so sorry you've been made to feel that you can't give support. Age doesn't dictate what kind of experiences people have had that can influence the kind of support they can give. Please feel free to PM me or any mod/admin if you're feeling a lack of support ok?

This thread is about coloring hair, so I just wanted to make sure we stay on topic here. I do a temporary black on my hair. It doesn't damage the hair like permanent and doesn't get the obvious roots. I had a hairdresser say that its actually protecting my hair to use the temporary color, since I'm darkening and not lightening.