I've never tried to find anything about my T on the web. But probably because his last name is so generic and common it would take me hours to sift through the results? He commented once that he would never put his picture on the web. So, I don't have a photo...<sob>

But, I have played phone messages over. Although, somehow they deleted and now I can't hear them anymore. I don't call his office after hours or on weekends. I'm afraid he's got caller id and might see me call his number 20x a day...giggle. That is an exaggeration but I still don't do it.

I don't have the guts to put myself out there like that. Too afraid of rejection as if you couldn't tell by some of my posts...