hi I'm new to this but here is my story. Me and my husband met when i was sixteen (he is older by three years) we where married when i was twenty. I'm now twenty six with three kids my husband left me two weeks ago after a very minor a argument, then returned two days later only to inform me that he had never loved me and had stayed with me all these years just for the kids. he never gave me an indication he was unhappy. i mean i did the house work and cooked for him. never went out and basically cut off every one in my life because he never wanted company. i have tried to talk it out but he just calls me names then then tells me to get over because he is done with me. I'm so hurt right now and scared. I have never been alone, i have never even dated anyone else, what if he doesn't come back, what will i do? he says his only concern are our children and but he has only came to see them once. i sit up all night with them making excuses on where he is and why he left because i really don't want to bash there dad. any advice would help