So when we get manic, who's to blame?

Say we say something hurtful, was it you or the bipolar?

What if we do something dangerous, who's at fault?

I always find interest asking this question, always good answers. When do you put your hand up and say you messed up or does it continue to be all the disorder?

I think it's a two way street, we can't blame ourselves if mania occurs but we can if we had decided to sneakily stop meds in the first place. Catch my drift? Now where do you stand?