???? I can't believe you're arguing with me. Imagine a guy who has a business. Someone breaks into his store, and steals a bunch of expensive crap. We know there is a guy who is going around and breaking into businesses and stealing things.

Should the business owner be questioned about his motives if he decides to go to the police?

Would anyone in their right mind say something like, "just forgive the guy.. don't look for vengeance (by going to the police), just forgive"?