KD,
I think you made yourself very clear.
Who does have enough energy for "24/7 hypervigilance" as you said?
May I ask do you have an adoptive family also?
I battle boundary maintenance too, but with my husband, b/c of his childhood issues.
Somewhere in the back of my mind I always thought life was supposed to get easier at some point, but evidently neither of us have reached that point -- LOL.
Hugs,
EJ
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