Here are a couple of websites to visit. Take your time and read through them....I'm sure you will find a lot of things that pertain to your relationship with your husband.

http://www.abusedadultresourcecenter.com/selfassess.htm

http://www.health24.com/sex/Abuse/1253-1272,18386.asp

http://www.howtospotadangerousman.co...FQJjSgodEA5XEA

http://www.lilaclane.com/relationships/emotional-abuse/

I hope you find something in these sites that you connect with and some ideas on how to handle situations.

I wish you all the best Trying, and if you ever need anything, please pm me and I'll do whatever I can to help you.

Hugssssssss
J